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<p><img src="http://carltonmatthews.com/content/images/2017/12/do-it.jpg" alt="">
<em>Image Credit: <a href="http://deirdrewalsh.ca/kicking-butt-digital-style/do-it-procrastination-concept-2/">Deidre Walsh Blog</a></em></p>

<p>Nothing is more frustrating to me than seeing things I procrastinated on, or worse yet things I was afraid of flourish.  I had <strong>2 of these very things hit me in the face in the last few weeks.</strong></p>

<p><strong>NO MORE</strong></p>

<p>My prayer for all of us is that we would stop being irrationally afraid.  <strong>Count the costs and DO IT!</strong>  There will always be course corrections.  There will be plenty of things that die on the vine.  Learn from the failures and <strong>Go GO GO!</strong></p>

<p>This guy knows you can do and he believes in you.  Go get it done! <br>
<img src="http://carltonmatthews.com/content/images/2017/12/YouCanDoIT.JPG" alt=""></p>]]></description><link>http://carltonmatthews.com/stop-being-scared-and-get-started/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">b3d4ed7f-3575-499f-933a-86c151d150d0</guid><category><![CDATA[big_challenge]]></category><category><![CDATA[year end]]></category><category><![CDATA[goals]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Carlton Matthews]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 28 Dec 2017 11:35:08 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Decisions and Choices]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://carltonmatthews.com/content/images/2017/12/coffee-choice.jpg" alt="Which Cup">
Image Credit: <a href="http://secondlineblog.org/2016/11/i-choose-choice-and-its-not-up-for-discussion/">Second Line Education Blog</a></p>

<blockquote>
  <p>This or that, one or the other, <strong>it doesn't matter.</strong></p>
  
  <p>It's actually possible that it just doesn't matter. <strong>A choice</strong>, but not a decision.</p>
  
  <p>We have to make choices like this every single day. What color, among three colors which are just fine. Which route, between two routes within <em>a rounding error in time taken</em>. Which flight, which table, which person...</p>
  
  <p><em><strong>Choices</strong> don't have to be decisions.</em></p>
  
  <p><a href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2017/12/choosing-with-out-deciding.html">- Seth Godin "Choosing without Deciding"</a></p>
</blockquote>

<p>How may choices do you make on a daily basis? The decision-making process is draining.  You need to find a way to short-circuit it.  In the below TED talk Barry Schwartz the author of <a href="http://amzn.to/2Bmi1js">The Paradox of Choice</a> shares some thoughts why too many decisions is draining and what we can do about it.</p>

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<p>My wife teases me about my <strong>60 Second Decision</strong> concept but it flows from the same thing that Schwartz brings up.  If there are too many choices we won't make a decision or we'll delay it.  Godin crystallizes by saying that many of the choices we have to make are so insignificant that we should devote so much energy to them.  </p>

<p>This is where the 60 second decision comes into play.  If you have a choice to make, and the consequences are small to non-exisitent pick one and move on.</p>

<p>I have seen so many people lock in the analysis loop.  I used to get stuck trying to make the <strong>right</strong> choice.  </p>

<p><strong>What-about-ism is real and it can kill success.</strong></p>

<p>The year is winding down and now is the time to leave behind bad habits.  Analysis paralysis is one to leave in 2017.</p>

<p>GO GO GO</p>

<p>Cover Image Credit: <a href="http://allsystemsgrow.co/blog/20598">All Systems Grow</a></p>]]></description><link>http://carltonmatthews.com/decisions-and-choices/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">ddbe0444-94c0-4347-9437-89a9cfde588c</guid><category><![CDATA[year end]]></category><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><category><![CDATA[choice]]></category><category><![CDATA[decision]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Carlton Matthews]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 22 Dec 2017 14:20:40 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Inaction is a Costly Choice]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://carltonmatthews.com/content/images/2016/12/troubled-couple.jpg" alt="Couple Not Amused With Each Other" title=""> </p>

<p>If we try and fail, we see the cost. The number of hours and dollars spent on the project. We feel the pain when it doesn't work. <em>The embarrassment is acute.</em></p>

<p><strong>This makes inaction tempting.</strong></p>

<p>We don't consider refusing to choose as a choice. We think we're safe if we don't expose ourselves to failure. <strong><em>We don't appreciate the consequences of inaction because they are slow, chronic, and less obvious.</em></strong> That's what makes them dangerous.</p>

<p>You don't get to escape pain.</p>

<p>The pain that comes with action is acute, scars you, and makes you grow.</p>

<p><strong>The pain that comes from inaction is low grade, softens you, and decays your soul.</strong></p>]]></description><link>http://carltonmatthews.com/inaction-is-a-costly-choice/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">34ed6084-e09f-4ea5-ae00-ba24ea14d1e4</guid><category><![CDATA[introspection]]></category><category><![CDATA[year end]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Carlton Matthews]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2016 13:18:27 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>