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Image Credit: <a href="http://secondlineblog.org/2016/11/i-choose-choice-and-its-not-up-for-discussion/">Second Line Education Blog</a></p>

<blockquote>
  <p>This or that, one or the other, <strong>it doesn't matter.</strong></p>
  
  <p>It's actually possible that it just doesn't matter. <strong>A choice</strong>, but not a decision.</p>
  
  <p>We have to make choices like this every single day. What color, among three colors which are just fine. Which route, between two routes within <em>a rounding error in time taken</em>. Which flight, which table, which person...</p>
  
  <p><em><strong>Choices</strong> don't have to be decisions.</em></p>
  
  <p><a href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2017/12/choosing-with-out-deciding.html">- Seth Godin "Choosing without Deciding"</a></p>
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<p>How may choices do you make on a daily basis? The decision-making process is draining.  You need to find a way to short-circuit it.  In the below TED talk Barry Schwartz the author of <a href="http://amzn.to/2Bmi1js">The Paradox of Choice</a> shares some thoughts why too many decisions is draining and what we can do about it.</p>

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<p>My wife teases me about my <strong>60 Second Decision</strong> concept but it flows from the same thing that Schwartz brings up.  If there are too many choices we won't make a decision or we'll delay it.  Godin crystallizes by saying that many of the choices we have to make are so insignificant that we should devote so much energy to them.  </p>

<p>This is where the 60 second decision comes into play.  If you have a choice to make, and the consequences are small to non-exisitent pick one and move on.</p>

<p>I have seen so many people lock in the analysis loop.  I used to get stuck trying to make the <strong>right</strong> choice.  </p>

<p><strong>What-about-ism is real and it can kill success.</strong></p>

<p>The year is winding down and now is the time to leave behind bad habits.  Analysis paralysis is one to leave in 2017.</p>

<p>GO GO GO</p>

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