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<p>Hey friends, today is my birthday.  To celebrate I wanted to let you know that <strong>you can do it!</strong></p>

<blockquote>
  <p><em>don't worry</em></p>
  
  <p><strong>Get Started</strong></p>
  
  <p><em>don't worry</em></p>
  
  <p><strong>Make Mistakes</strong></p>
  
  <p><em>don't worry</em></p>
  
  <p><strong>Keep Going</strong></p>
  
  <p><em>don't worry</em></p>
  
  <p><strong>Do It Anyway!</strong></p>
</blockquote>

<p>I want you to succeed this year.  I know that you are capable.  I know that you have what it takes.</p>

<p>Go GO <strong>GO!</strong></p>

<p>Oh yeah, and Happy Birthday to me</p>]]></description><link>http://carltonmatthews.com/happy-birthday/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68a928e9-28b5-4357-8aa7-13bd76f1cb35</guid><category><![CDATA[videos]]></category><category><![CDATA[year of doing]]></category><category><![CDATA[birthday]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Carlton Matthews]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 13 Jun 2018 14:03:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Year 41 Goals Post]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Time for the rubber to meet the road.  After finishing up my retrospective <a href="http://carltonmatthews.com/another-year-of-review/">yesterday</a> I shared my <strong>Big 3</strong> goals for year 41.  </p>

<ol>
<li><strong>Lose</strong> 50 pounds  </li>
<li><strong>Write</strong> a Book  </li>
<li><strong>Earn</strong> additional income</li>
</ol>

<p><strong>Identifying your goals is an important</strong> first step, but it is not the final one.  While these are good they are either not <strong>specific</strong> enough or not actionable <strong>actionable</strong>.</p>

<p>Let's work these until we have something we can use.  We need to take these and make some <strong>SMART</strong>  goals.  Here is how we define SMART goals.</p>

<blockquote>
  <p><strong>S</strong>pecific: <strong><em>A Clear Unambigiuous Statement</em></strong></p>
  
  <p><strong>M</strong>easureable: <strong><em>How Do We Quanitfy Success</em></strong></p>
  
  <p><strong>A</strong>ctionable: <strong><em>How Will The Goal Be Achieved</em></strong></p>
  
  <p><strong>R</strong>ealistic: <strong><em>Is It Attainable</em></strong></p>
  
  <p><strong>T</strong>ime-bound: <strong><em>What Is The Timeframe</em></strong></p>
</blockquote>

<h4 id="timebound">Time-bound</h4>

<p>So what do we do with our first goal?  We can start with the time-bound part.  These are the goals for year 41. so we will start this way.  </p>

<blockquote>
  <p>In 365 days...</p>
</blockquote>

<h4 id="realistic">Realistic</h4>

<p>Next we need to have a realistic goal that is still challenging.  This is where the amount of pounds lost will be listed.  With an expectation of 1-2 pounds lost per week 50 pounds makes sense.  </p>

<blockquote>
  <p>... I will have lost 50 pounds.</p>
</blockquote>

<h4 id="specificmeasurableactions">Specific Measurable Actions</h4>

<p>I am combining these three because it makes sense in this context.  </p>

<blockquote>
  <p>This will be achieved through tracking calories (1920/day) and exercise(3x/week).</p>
</blockquote>

<h4 id="putittogether">Put It Together</h4>

<p><strong>Goal #1</strong></p>

<blockquote>
  <p>In <strong>365 days</strong> I will have <strong>lost 50 pounds</strong> by <strong>eating</strong> 1920 calories per day and <strong>exercising</strong> 3 times per week.</p>
</blockquote>

<p><strong>Goal #2</strong></p>

<blockquote>
  <p>In <strong>365 days</strong> I will have <strong>written a novel of at least 50,000 words</strong> by participating in National Novel Writing Month and <strong>writing at least 1700 words per day.</strong></p>
</blockquote>

<p><strong>Goal #3</strong></p>

<blockquote>
  <p>In <strong>365 days</strong> I will have <strong>created another stream of income</strong>.  This stream will <strong>generate an additional $500</strong> throughout the year.  This income will be generated <strong>through speaking and advertising revenue.</strong></p>
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